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Foster: Arrest Dan Savage

Anti-gay activist DL Foster calls for Dan Savage’s arrest for starting the It Gets Better Project to curb LGBT youth suicide

It is a fact that LGBTQA kids have committed suicide since the start of the It Gets Better Project.  It is also a fact that they have not killed themselves because of the messages shared in those videos.  However what has driven them to pain so deep that they believe the only relief would come from death, is the teaching of homophobic ASSHOLES like DL Foster.  Foster promotes himself as an ex-gay Evangelist.   He’s been “cured” of his gayness by Jesus Christ.  Well good for him.  The strain of living a lie must be overwhelming.  The question is, which life exactly is the lie?  I have my own opinions on it, but they are of course just that.

If these religious nuts would spend less time fostering an environment ripe for hate, bigotry, and intolerance, their kids would stop taking this shit to school with them.  This kind of ignorance is learned, but can be unlearned.  The problem is that nothing is ever done about it until we have a dead kid.  So for every political and religious leader that would stand against anti-bullying laws because they don’t want to protect gay kids, I give a huge FUCK YOU!  Gay kids are not the only ones that are bullied to the point of homicide or suicide.  To stop measures that would protect all kids, and then call yourself a loving parent, is one of the most hypocritical stances of the homophobic.  

If a child is bullied for their weight, race, shyness, intelligence, sexual orientation, or any other reason, the ADULTS need to stand up and put an end to it.  But no, you don’t want to do that because your god forbid those preventative measures accidentally save the life of a gay kid in the process.  How about spending a little less time maligning those trying to save lives, and spend more time working on not being the force that ends lives. ~ Kim

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Fuck! When will this end.  Why do these fucking politicians and religious groups keep fighting against anti-bullying laws that can save lives?!  ”I know how it feels to live in a world of Government sanctioned homophobia.”  Those were his chilling words in his video, and now he’s gone.  ~ Kim

Suicide claims another LGBT youth: Trevor Project intern Eric Borges

Eric James Borges, 19, of Visalia, Calif., succumbed to suicide Wednesday, January 11, 2012. Known as EricJames to his friends, he was an intern with The Trevor Project, and a Supplemental instructor at the College of the Sequoias.

Eric James Borges. (Image via Facebook.)

Word began spreading late Wednesday among shocked and saddened friends and acquaintances. Not accepted by his birth family, EricJames was striking out on his own, trying to deal with his personal situation, but also wanting to help others.

Sadly, even involvement with the Trevor Project was not enough to help him navigate the turbulent waters of young adulthood.

A young film maker, EricJames posted this video on November 10, 2011, in which he also appears — the subtext of his video was described as “love is universal.”

EricJames also made a “It Gets Better” video, and posted it in December of last year.

I met EricJames recently, at the launching of My LGBT Plus, a youth oriented resource site, based in Fresno, California. A brief introduction left me with the impression of a fine young man, and I regret that I did not get to know him better.

Friends have begun planning a memorial, details will be updated here as they become available.

Our condolences to the family and friends of EricJames.

If you are finding it difficult to deal with the issues of being LGBTQ, The Trevor Project is available, with peer counselors available to talk to you about problems you may be facing.

Update: Laura McGinnis, Communications Director at The Trevor Project sentLGBTQ Nation this statement:

We are deeply saddened to hear about the tragic death of EricJames Borges, and our hearts go out to his family and friends, and his community. EricJames was a dedicated, trained volunteer. Our main concern right now is that those affected by his death feel supported and can get the care they need. If you or someone you know needs support, please don’t hesitate to call the Trevor Lifeline at 866-488-7386.

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My Secret Confession: I Think All Male Librarians Are Sexy

Maybe it’s because they work with books or catalogue data.  Maybe it’s because the sexiest man in my 10th grade world was Father Andrew, the librarian at my all girls catholic school.  I used to walk in and tell him what I was thinking and he always knew the right book for me.  I can’t name exactly what the attraction is but it’s something I’ve never outgrown.  And it’s not like the sexy Librarian thing where the woman takes off her glasses and shakes out her hair and she’s super hot.  I like them just the way the are, glasses, tweeds, sweaters, balding, it doesn’t matter.

As if someone were reading my mind, they’ve come out with a calender, The Men Of The Stacks!!! 12 months of Librarians for me to ogle.  I must say this is the best birthday present I’ve gotten this year.  Thank you David D!!!!  Fortunately I don’t believe its bad luck to use a calendar for the upcoming year before January.  I’m a happy girl.  ~ Kim

You can get your very own calender here http://menofthestacks.com/

***Update*** Just found out that ALL proceeds from this calender goes to the It Gets Better Project. :)

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Just one of the many many reasons I hate Christianity. So we’re not supposed to give LGBT kids hope for a future? He’s right in saying it doesn’t get better. Oh their lives will get better, but unfortunately assholes like him will continue to inhabit the world and that won’t change. ~ kim

stfuhypocrisy:

It Doesn’t Get Better Project (by OnKneesforJesus3

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So now homosexuality causes cancer y’all.

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Do not let them try to fix you! You’re not the broken one.

As a behavioral health nurse, the very idea of conversion therapy, reparative therapy, or praying away “the gay” disturbs me on a very deep level. It terrifies me to know that families still put their children through this. That adults, so despesparate to fit in to what society deems as normal sexual behavior, will subject themselves to such hurt. The fallout is never good. Suicide is often the only way out some can envision after multiple attempts to be cured has failed. If you’re here on tumblr and you’re currently trying to change, I just want to let you know there is NOTHING wrong with you. I know many of you are young and would lose your means of financial support and shelter if you came out now, but I want you to know that you should hang in there. Before you know it you’ll be on your own and able to be who you were truly BORN to be. I love you and I don’t even know you, so I’m sure there are so many others that do as well. Do not let someone try to fix you!!!! ~ Kim

Resources for those who need it.

Need to talk about it? Call:

The Trevor Project: 866 4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386) or www.thetrevorproject.org

Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255)

Just need some inspiration? Watch:

It Gets Better Project: www.itgetsbetter.org or search it gets better on youtube

Gay Family Values: http://www.youtube.com/user/depfox

 

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